How often have you been in a state where you are anxious and the mind is overthinking things, and you say “When this is all over with
I will finally start living my life peacefully!” The truth is the roadblocks and challenges will continue coming. We may find moments of peace however the pressures of life are part of the essential living experience.
Unfortunately a lot of us humans live with a mind that has taken possession of them. They have become subservient to the mind, thoughts and charged emotional reactivity.
Many of the supposed thoughts that we attach ourselves to as “My” thoughts are actually arising form a collective mind. They are energetic frequencies that we are not obliged to accept or believe. We can choose to watch them pass like a leaf floating downstream. Acknowledge it, and let it float away..
There is an understanding of who you are beyond the surface material self. The I, ME, MY, MINE self. The self that identifies which such things as appearance, personality traits (things that define you), status, things you own/have, your level of education, relationship status, etc.
Then there is your self essence or deeper aspects of self. What can you say about the self that comes from a much less tangible place? It’s a challenge as it is almost impossible to conceptualize. But we can perceive it in moments of alert stillness. We don’t need to know our name or where we live, or our personal history. We do not need to know these things in order to be fully present or truly live from the essence of who we are. Our stories do not come alive in the spaces between the thoughts, or in the quiet moments when we are residing in a state of being.
I’d like to share a story about my late father who had a stroke several years ago, and had lost much of his memory. During our visits he cycled in and out of conscious presence, from being in a dream state or sometimes memories of his distant past and back to the present. In the beginning I would often correct him or dig deeper to find out what he was trying to say. But when I was simply present with him, rather than trying to correct his mistakes of memory or people’s names, or even the present reality. He was able to simply be, without agitation or sensing my agitation. We were allowing the moment to arise and resting in the spaces between words. He was more his true essence of self in those moments than he was before his stroke.
So the transcendent dimension can not be experienced as an object because it is the eternal “I”. You know yourself as consciousness. Not conscious of something….but just consciousness. It does not take time or practice to be who you are. It is here right now in this present moment. This is how we escape the overthinking mind. Recognizing it, and actively deciding to let go of the storm.
Where is your mind when you are feeling overwhelmed from an overthinking mind? Is it in the future? Or perhaps the past? It is certainly not in the present moment. It is in a state of worry rather than a state of being. The first step is to become aware of your mind patterns. You may notice certain triggers that may cause you to start thinking obsessively. Once you start to become aware of your conditioned behaviours you can begin to work on reconditioning your mind.
“If there is an awareness of how thought begins then there is no need to control thought. We spend a great deal of time and waste a great deal of energy all through our lives, not only at school, trying to control our thoughts …’This is good thought, i must think about it a lot. This is an ugly thought, I must suppress it.’
There is a battle going on all the time between one thought and another, one desire and another, one pleasure dominating all other pleasures. But…. if there is an awareness of the beginning of thought, then there is no contradiction in thought.”
— Jiddu Krishnamurti, Indian Spiritual Philosopher, from his talk “Freedom from the known”
One can perceive the thought’s point of entry, and every thought that arises when aware and present becomes a fork in the road. You decide! You are the charioteer steering the chariot of your mind. Take control of the reigns and steer yourself toward a life-affirming journey.